Coach Smith teaches PE and coaches a middle school softball team in her lifelong hometown. Although she diligently works daily to provide the best for all of her students and players, one mother simply will not let up. Every day this mother finds something to complain about whether it is about coaching styles, coaching techniques, or teaching practices. Many believe that the complaining is insignificant and simply an attempt to make things hard for Coach Smith. Although she has been patient throughout it all, it is beginning to bother her tremendously. What should she do?
If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this.
She needs to have a one-on-one conversation with that particular parent. She can use coaching strategies by summarizing what the parent is saying. Often, when what they say is repeated back, they change their demeanor. Then, if needed, that parent should not be allowed at practice.
I would never do this! This is wrong!