I am a substitute teacher that often does long-term assignments. There is a 4th grade student that always comes to class very tired, in dirty clothes, and often smells bad. To add insult to injury, I've seen his mother and she is very well kept, dressed with all the "bling accessories," her nails done, hair done, etc. I can't understand how a mother can take such great care for herself, and leave the child a filthy mess.
How should this be addressed and handled properly?
I totally agree. There is only so much a parent can do. Mom cannot drag a 9 year old boy in the shower.
I agree with this solution. There is only so much that a parent can do, and once you talk to your student you can figure out where to go; if there is neglect you can report it and if there is just stubbornness for the child you can give them a chance to learn.
I agree with this solution. Do not make the child feel bad about themselves but bring it up in a friendly manor
If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this.
I agree!
I agree completely with your solution!
I agree completely. Sometimes it's not the parents fault, and we don't know the situation. Gaining more perspective will be important in moving forward with less likelihood of offending someone.
I agree with this solution. You would not want to offend anyone for no reason or possibly embarrass the child.
I would never do this. This is wrong.Speak with administration if the parent doesn't resolve the issue, not child services.