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Inappropriate teacher convo

Teacher often talks with coworkers about their sex life. What if students hear? Should I say something?

Posted on: 04/17/22 | Views: 325
Solution #1
I would definitely say something to the teacher about the inappropriateness of their behavior. If the teacher ignores your comment and the discussion continue, I would inform your principal. This could become a significant issue for the school if a student hears and tells their parents.
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Solution #2
I would definetly say something, that is not a work place topic. The teacher should discuss those matters when not on campus.
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Solution #3
This type of conversation is very inappropriate within educational settings. I think you are right to fear students over hearings these talks, and I would say something. When it comes down to it, speaking up is in the best interest of the students. When approaching confrontation, I would always make sure to be respectful yet still truthful. I would let the teacher know that if the teacher feels the need to discuss this with his/her coworkers, make sure these conversations are not occurring during school hours.
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Solution #4
This is very inappropriate behavior, and I would definitely report this to some sort of administration.
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Solution #5
I think the best option would be to pull the teacher aside and tell them that that type of conversation is not appropriate in front of students, doing it at lunch or on their planning period (away from students) would be the best option. If it continues I would go and complain to the principal.
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Solution #6
I would definitely remind the teacher that students might be able to hear. If it continues, then take it to a higher up, the last thing you want is students to hear those conversations.
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Solution #7
As your role of working with children, topics like this should not be discussed in this public setting. It is unprofessional and common sense.
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Solution #8
I suggest speaking to the teacher about it and if nothing changes speak to administration about it! That is definitely not work place appropriate, especially in a school with children who may over hear!
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Solution #9
I would definitely say something to admin. Students talk.
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Solution #10
Say something to the teachers involved. If it continues go to a supervisor or admin.
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Solution #11
Topics like these should not be discussed near students or even at work. This kind of conversation should be had outside of work time and not on school grounds. So, yes, someone should be informed of the inappropriate conversations.
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Solution #12
Absolutely, inappropriate conversation for work or school should not be happening. Period.
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Solution #13
This is a conversation to be handled by administration. I would report it. If it continues, and you feel it was not adequately handled, go to district and then your statewide education department. I would not address it with them yourself, it is not your responsibility, and could only create a hostile environment for you.
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Solution #14
I would definitely say something if this is a topic where student ears could hear. This is definitely not appropriate to be talking about around student.
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Solution #15
There is a time and a place for private conversations, while the kids are at lunch, while they’re at specials, during recess while they’re all distracted. Personal conversations should not be held anywhere near students and something should be said to them or their supervisors
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Solution #16
If a teacher is actively involving you in talk about their personal sex life, you have some responsibility to talk with them about it being inappropriate and then report them if necessary.
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Solution #17
I would make a comment or talk to that teacher suggesting that their personal conversations take place outside of work. I would try not to come off as rude, but say if you can hear those conversations, then the students might be able to hear them too. If they continue this behavior or if you do not feel comfortable addressing this with your coworker then I would let your principal know what is going on.
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Solution #18
A effective way to approach this situation that could solve the issue is by communicating your feelings non verbally. Non verbal communication carries more influence than people think, and might facilitate the realization that this talk is inappropriate in the school/professional setting. This nonverbal message could be a look or gesture of discomfort. This is a simple yet effective strategy that allows you to avoid having to verbally express something.
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Solution #19
This is very inappropriate behavior, and I would definitely report this to some sort of administration.
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Solution #20
I think it this is something that should be brought up. School is not the place to be having these conversations.
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Solution #21
I believe in speaking up for the kids more than anything. It is inappropriate for a teacher to be speaking on this so if you hear something, say something.
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Solution #22
I would just tell them to text me about or to talk later. If they don't pick up on the hint be more direct and tell them that is not okay.
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Solution #23
If it were me, I would bow out of the convo. If that's impossible I would be honest and say, "I do not want to talk about this." Social correction barely happens between adults so when it does, it holds weight!
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Solution #24
Unless you see the teacher discussing their sex life with students, or if they try to involve you in their conversation, I'd stay out of it.

I personally do not agree with this comment. If a teacher is actively involving you in talk about their personal sex life, you have some responsibility to talk with them about it being inappropriate and then report them if necessary.

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